How to Enjoy Thanksgiving with Your Teen 🦃🧡
As anyone with teenagers knows, enjoying Thanksgiving doesn’t just happen.
Most teens would rather do anything other than hang out with family.
They want to spend time with friends.
They think visiting relatives is boring.
They don’t want to participate in holiday festivities.
You anticipate an argument and think, “Why does this have to be so hard?”
If you want a hassle-free holiday, strategize ahead of time when you are calm and clear-headed.
Be ready to compromise.
Try saying, “I want you to participate with the family on Thanksgiving, but I’m willing to discuss your plans for Friday.”
Teens are good at derailing the conversation, so be prepared to get comfortable with their frustration.
Some grandparents, aunts, or uncles are judgmental of your teen’s choices.
Try saying, “I know it feels awful when grandma is critical. Let’s brainstorm on how to handle that.”
Then they feel like nothing is wrong with them and you are on their side.
When it’s difficult to get them engaged in family time, try asking, “What are some fun activities you can do with everyone?”
If you get the common response, “I don’t know,” with an eye-roll, here are a few ideas: share funny Tik-Tok videos, take their younger cousin to collect fall leaves, or create a gratitude game.
Your teen is more likely to buy into family time when they can share their interests.
With this approach, you’ll enjoy a more peaceful holiday, creating memories, connecting, and having fun.
Wishing you a joyful Thanksgiving!
♥️ Jeanine
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