Life with your teenager can be better

Ever have those moments when your teenager is rude, lies, or never gets off their phone?

And then you’re frustrated, worried, maybe even angry, and decide now is the perfect time to talk?

News flash: it’s not.

Or how about when you give them advice, thinking it’ll help?

Then they slam the door or give you lip service—and nothing changes.

So frustrating, right?

And when you hit them with the classic, “Why did you do that?” and they fire back with, “I don’t know! Stop asking me!”

Yeah, that doesn’t work either.

Even when the experts say, “Let them fail,” it feels terrifying.

But here’s the thing—there are better ways to parent.

Want a productive conversation with your teenager?

Don’t approach them when you’re furious or freaking out.

Want them to listen?

Get on their side—make it you two against the problem, not you against them.

Curious why they did something?

Reassure them you won’t be disappointed so they feel safe to open up.

Need to motivate them?

Shift the conversation so they see what’s in it for them.

Now, imagine the next time your teenager lies (or does something that drives you up the wall), but now you know how to get them to open up and listen so you can help.

What would that feel like?

Less worried, less frustrated—more hopeful, more connected?

If this sounds like what you’re looking for, book a complimentary consultation to see how coaching can help. 

♥️ Jeanine