The Most Powerful Tool in Your Parenting Chest

One of the most powerful tools in your parenting chest is your spouse. They are the only other person as invested in your child’s happiness and success as you are.

Unfortunately, the daily stress of raising teens can feel like you are on opposite teams. 

You might feel frustrated because they undermine the healthy habits you are trying to teach.

You might feel resentful, having to be the rule enforcer while they get to be the “fun” parent.

You might feel more alone than supported as you scramble to make dinner and keep the kid’s responsibilities on track.

It’s easy to blame your spouse when you’re exhausted, especially when your teen’s life is not going the way you imagined.

But instead of feeling drained, harness the power of parental unity by making time to have a conversation with your spouse about how to handle your teen’s challenges.

Approach the conversation with curiosity about their point of view.
Listen to their thoughts and possible solutions.
Express your feelings using “I” statements.

Ask for what you want.
Be willing to try alternative solutions.
Strategize together to find the best approach.

Unite in your shared vision for your children.

You both want your teen to launch with confidence and good decision-making skills.

You both want to empower your teen to be the best version of themselves.

You both want to create the foundation for a lasting connection.

Open, honest, and consistent communication will make it easier to feel united in your parenting approach. It’s the most effective way to enjoy these years together as a family.

You also demonstrate what a loving partnership looks like.

Together, you are better parents.
You can lean on each other and feel more supported.
Together, you can form an unbreakable connection that enables your children to thrive.

Your Coach,
Jeanine

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