Would you like an unsolicited hug from your teen?
When was the last time your teen spontaneously hugged you?
Don’t those impulsive hugs just feel the best?
Your whole body relaxes as you embrace them.
It feels like everything is going to be okay.
Your heart expands and the love you feel for them is infinite.
If you are not getting unsolicited hugs from your teen, there is a simple remedy.
Give your teen your presence, not your solution.
When we see our child struggling or making scary choices, it’s perfectly natural to want to tell them what they are doing wrong and what they should do differently.
That might have worked when they were younger, but that is not what your teenager needs now.
They want you to listen without telling them what they should do.
They want you to help them understand what they are experiencing is normal.
They want to know that you are confident in their ability to solve their own problems.
This may be a 180-degree shift from how you parented in the past.
This requires you to let them fail and give them the opportunity to learn from their mistakes.
It takes courage.
But if you want those unsolicited hugs, listen deeply, validate their feelings, eliminate your judgment, and trust they will be okay.
Help them understand that everyone struggles.
Assure them that it’s normal to not get it right the first, the second, or even the tenth time.
Teach them that life is about continually growing and evolving.
In my 6-month coaching program, I teach you the exact steps to take to get unsolicited hugs.
How would that impact your happiness?
How would your life be different?
You don’t have to wait to have the relationship you want with your teen.
I can help you have it today.
Click HERE and let’s get started.
Your Coach,
Jeanine